Creative Differences : What is it like to be a woman with a career so glamorous, so absorbing, that all other relationships, even romantic ones, must suffer. What does it take for a woman to succeed in the film business - still very much a men's club. Buffy Shutt knows. Starting out as a secretary, she worked her way up to the top executive positions at several major studios. So she renders the movie business with the unflinching accuracy and total honesty of an insider, a woman who has been there - and still is.